Proper 26 B (November 3) : Feeling Like an Alien/Choosing to Love

 

  

Bible Readings: Ruth 1:1-18, Psalm 146, Hebrews 9:11-14, Mark 12:28-34

About the Images: 

Upper Left: It is so natural to turn to your Father when things go pear-shaped. This is my image so please feel free to use it for worship and related activities.

Upper Right: This is a www.heartlight.com free powerpoint background with words I took from one of those emails which does the rounds of all our computers from time to time (see Useful Quotes below).

Middle Left: The land of Moab today (part of present day Jordan). This is my photo so please feel free to use it for worship and related activities.

Middle Right: This is a Microsoft free clipart image with my text.

Lower Left: Photo by Matthew Henry on Unsplash

Lower Right: A free clipart from Cerezo Barredo. See my link column at left. 

Bottom Left: a free image from the Misioneros Del Sagrado Corazón en el Perú.

Listening song: Alien

By Third Day on their album, Conspiracy No 5 (pictured at right) This song fits in well with the Ruth reading.

Invocation

By Elaine Miller and found in Before the Amen by Maren C Tirabassi and Maria I. Tirrabassi (Eds), Pilgrim Press, Cleveland, 2007, ISBN 978 0 8298 1750 8, page 127(pictured below right). Based on the Ruth reading.

Kid's Story:

Tell story of Ruth and Naomi as an example of Mark 12:30-31 in that Ruth loves God enough to follow God, and loves Naomi enough to follow and be with her,

and/or
Hide the individual words of Mark 12: 30-31 in the congregation on big individual red hearts. Get the kids to find them, and put them in order to work out what the verse says.

Kid's Story: The Runaway Hug

By Nick Bland and Freya Blackwood, Scholastic Australia, 2011, ISBN 9781865044057 (pictured at left).  A delightful story-book which fits in beautifully with the gospel reading.  Thanks to Miranda Walker for suggesting this book.

Youth Time: When you don't fit in.

Do you ever feel like an alien – like a misfit, like you don’t belong?
Tell a story from your own teen years when you felt like you didn't fit in (we all have at least one!). Relate it to Ruth and Naomi and how hard it must have been to live in a strange place and amongst foreigners/strangers.

Voice drama for congregation: Not enough

One: I am a good Christian.
Many: What do you mean?
One: Well, I go to church every Sunday.
Many: That is not enough.
One: I visit my parents.
Many: That is not enough.

One: Well, I’ve never stolen anything, and I’ve certainly never killed anyone.
Many: That is still not enough.
One: What then? What is enough?
Many: You must love God. We must love God. With our hearts. With our minds. With our bodies. With our souls. We must love our neighbors. We must love ourselves.

ALL: Let us put our love into motion as we worship the One who’s taught us to love.

Written by Crystal Sygeel-Lystlund, Good Shepherd United Methodist Church, Richmond, Virginia. Excerpted from Homiletics, Nov. 2, 1997: Mark 12:28-34.

Useful Quotes: About Love:

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your chips without making them give you any of theirs."

"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate."

"Love is when you tell someone something bad about yourself and you're scared they won't love you any more. But then you get surprised because they love you even more."

"Love is when you tell a boy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you."

"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth."
"God could have said some words to make the nails fall off the cross, but .............. He didn't. That's love."

"Love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength. Love others as much as you love yourself." -Jesus

"Love God and do as you like" - St Augustine

Pew Discussion:

Would you rather be known for your goodness or your love? Share your answer with the people on each side of you.

All Saints Prayer Flags: 

Ask each person to decorate a prayer flag

1.    in memory of a person who you have known and loved who has died, or

2.    in thankfulness for a person who still has the light of God shining through them or

3.    as a symbolic statement of your own intent to live as a saint. 

Decorate the outside of your church with the prayer flags. 

Benediction: Based on an African Version

Project the following words:

The Good News: You are loved

The Challenge: To love

The Invitation: To follow 

Ask everybody to choose the line that means the most to them.

Stand at the door and have the first person who leaves tell you what line they chose and you then tell them what you chose. Ask that person to stand beside you. Have the second person to leave tell you which line they chose and you tell them which you chose, and then have them do the same with the person standing next to you. The second person then stands next to the person standing next to you. Have the third person to leave .......and so on.

When you do this with a whole congregation it takes a bit of time and you end up with a sort of human snake spilling out the door of your worship space; but it is a great end to a service and has literally everyone talking to everyone!

Benediction: Based on an African Version for All Saints celebrations

Do as above but get each person to say "I see you, Saint (and the name of the person they are facing)" and the person they are facing responds with  'I see you, Saint (person's name)"

Also:

Kids: Let the Celebrations Begin

By Margaret Wild and Julie Vivas, Box Press,  with lots of ideas for a whole worship service found in Worship is For Everyone by Julie Pinazza, Openbook Publishers, 2000, ISBN 0859109259, page 55 (pictured at left). This goes well with the Ruth reading.

All Sorts of Useful Stuff: Grape Expectations

By Ian Birkinshaw in Multi-Sensory Parables, Scripture Union, 2006, ISBN 9781844272310, page 56 (pictured at right).  This is based on the Gospel.

Drama: Just a Load of Garbage

Found in Mega Drama 3 by Verona Johnson (ed) Openbook, 2002, ISBN 0859109178 (v.3), page 11 (pictured at left) . This drama is based on the Hebrews reading. 

Service Outline: Have a read of this!

Based on the Ruth reading this is found in The All-Age Service Annual Volume 4, published by Scripture Union, 2010, ISBN 9781844275199, page 86 (pictured at right).

Service Outline: Ruth: God's Answer

Based on the Ruth reading this is found in The All-Age Service Annual Volume 4, published by Scripture Union, 2010, ISBN 9781844275199, page 94 (pictured at right).

Service Starter: Shoulder to Shoulder

Based on the Ruth reading, this is found in The All-Age Service Annual Volume 4, published by Scripture Union, 2010, ISBN 9781844275199, page 38 (pictured at right).

Ruth

Found in Messy Church 2 by Lucy Moore, The Bible Reading Fellowship, 2008, ISBN 978 1 84101 602 3, page 136 (pictured at left). This activity is based on the Ruth reading. For a few reasons that sadden me, Messy Church activities are often moved out of regular church services into their own little niche service. 

Confession

By Anna Shirey and found in Before the Amen by Maren C Tirabassi and Maria I. Tirrabassi (Eds), Pilgrim Press, Cleveland, 2007, ISBN 978 0 8298 1750 8, page 103 (pictured at right). Based on the Mark reading.

Responsive Reading - A Beatitude

By Kristie McLaughlin and found in Before the Amen by Maren C Tirabassi and Maria I. Tirrabassi (Eds), Pilgrim Press, Cleveland, 2007, ISBN 978 0 8298 1750 8, page 127(pictured at right). Based on the Psalm reading.

Australian Floral Illustrations and Links:

Found in The Scrolls Illuminated by Fiona Pfennigwerth, Bible Society, 2011, pages 26-27 and 34-35 concentrate on the Ruth reading. Stunning!!  Images may be used for such purposes as church services, with acknowledgement of the artist.